Did you ever, as a child, dig for buried
treasure in the schoolyard?
And when your efforts were frustrated, did
you remedy the situation by burying something for the next kid?
The Portland library has deep trenches
running the length of the library tables; as teenagers my friend and I used to
amuse ourselves dropping poetry in the trenches to be found by strangers.
Nowadays this sort of activity is called
geo-caching.
I never went geo-caching, but I have opened
an electrical-utilities box in a Jerusalem hallway to flick the fuse and found
instead a library of English-language crafting books.
GeMaCh is an acronym for gemilas
chasadim, an act of lovingkindness.
In modern parlance a gemach is an
institution or person that you can call up or visit for a specific favor. Often
but not always a gemach is a library or distribution point for a specific kind
of thing.
Gemachs are an integral part of the Jewish
community. Some are modest operations in someone's living room (or fuse box);
walking into others is like walking into a retail shop.
Between the white pages and the yellow pages
of any Jewish community phone book are the gemach pages.
Among them –
Gemachs for a single book. Someone reads a
book and likes it so much that she decides it should be available to everyone
in the neighborhood, so she purchases multiple copies to loan out.
The chickpea gemach. There's a custom to
serve chickpeas on the Friday night following the birth of a son. If your
family is busy, or if your son is born, say, Friday afternoon, the chickpea
gemach sends round a bowl of chickpeas.
The carseat and crib gemach. You can leave a
deposit and borrow everything for your new baby, or a crib for your guests, or
a carseat for an outing.
The wedding-dress gemach. Women who have
bought their own wedding dress (or mother-of-the-bride dress, or
eight-sisters-of-the-bride matching dresses) and aren't using it anymore donate
it to this gemach, which lends it out to other families, charging a small fee
to cover mending, dry-cleaning, and rental of the space needed to store all
those dresses.
There are also everyday clothing gemachs to
sell secondhand clothes. (Stores with leftover merchandise send it to clothing
gemachs at the end of the season.)
A housekeeping-for-newlyweds gemach: pots
and pans and sheets and towels at cost price.
I always said I would never be the lady who
has a cardboard box gemach, although I have benefited from box gemachs in the
past, because cardboard is hard to store properly. But then we moved, and we
had a huge pile of cardboard boxes, and it seemed a pity to throw them out when
they are so useful to people who are moving (or sledding), so now I am the
cardboard box lady after all.
The gemach gemach. If you want to start a
gemach but need a filing system to keep track of information, and hangers or
shelves, you can go to a gemach gemach and get them.
The “dial-a-diary” gemach. In large Jewish
communities it can be tricky to schedule events; so you call the local
“dial-a-diary” gemach before and after you set a date, to make sure your event
will not conflict with anyone else's.
One of the kedoshim who was murdered
just now in Har Nof had a freezer gemach. Har Nof is a steep hill; you get from
one street to the next using stairs. I run out of energy walking up and down
Har Nof carrying nothing, let alone a stroller; but he would load a whole
freezer onto a handcart and bump-bump-bump it to whoever wanted to borrow a freezer.
(eulogy.)
I have a friend with the neighborhood
printer gemach. If you want to print something small, like a government form,
you call her instead of having to hike to the print shop. No charge.
And so on, and so on, and so on. Kerosene,
hot plates, centerpieces, garlic and sugar; there is even a lady who has made
her phone number a “gemach” for women who are having a bad day and want someone
to encourage them. I always wish there were an airplane gemach (in effect, a
nonprofit airline) to shuttle people to and from Israel.
I wrote this post because people who have
not lived in a community with a thriving gemach culture tend to assume that
gemachs are only for emergencies. I have had people jump on my offer of
cardboard boxes until I called my stack of boxes my “box gemach” and then they
recoiled, saying, “Oh, no, no thank you, I don't need to use a gemach, we can
buy our own boxes.”
(No! Please! Come take my boxes!)
Gemachs are a convenience for everyone.
Millionaires also run out of children's Tylenol in the middle of the night and
visit the Tylenol gemach. There's no reason why people should need to buy new
clothes unless they want to, when others in the neighborhood are looking for
someone to adopt their like-new ones.
So, don't be shy about calling the gemach.
Most are intended not as charity but as a public convenience.
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